I get it, you are searching for your the "perfect game" and this one had a glimmer of it. But it will never happen unless you make your own.
Obviously criticism is predicated on personal opinion but I found most of it valuable given that as far as I'm concerned the mentioned problems actively decrease my enjoyment of the game at any given time I'm playing it. It's why I have, for now, gone back to DOS1 while the main problems in DOS2 are unfixed.
To be clear, I did find DOS2 enjoyable but at the same time I think it's best to wait a few months in hopes that the recurring criticism is addressed before getting back into it.
I'd also like to add to the list of issues the insane stat bloat present in higher levels, intensely exacerbated on tactician mode.