thats because you assume we are talking about one extreme or another. Just look at the character portraits of baldurs gate or the female armors in neverwinter nights and youll know what were talking about here.
The argument is not realy wether or not you like sexualized fantasy characters but wether or not artists should be allowed to create them. Id like to remind you that Original Sin 1 had its cover art censored because of this issue.
And yet Original Sin 2 armour design was skimpier than ever before in the Divinity series, so I wouldn't worry about Larian becoming puritan all of sudden