genuinly asking, what sexualization and objectification? In western RPGs to boot? Which doesnt even get into the question wether or not these things are actually bad, or if this is just another parroted phrase. As for men not beeing sexualized: kind of pointless. Women are not attracted to men beeing sexualized in the same way men like women to be sexualized, its a false equivalency.
On having options. Yes i think having options to go either way is probably what most sensible people actually want. Its not like i am against having variety. The issue is with those people that are osmehow offended by one particular thing even beeing included.