Turn-based is the best combat mechanic for RPG. It allow us to have total control on every aspect of the combat. While RTWP is chaotic, counterintuitive and can easily go out of control for many players especially the newbies.
Wrong. Maybe TB gives you the perception that you are in control of everything, but not me. There are many things I can do in combat in RTwP which a TB system does not allow me to do. A TB system forces me to act according to a script that has been determined for me by the system, which is the exact opposite of having control. And yes, RTwP is chaotic. Good. That is exactly how combat should be. It should be chaotic, messy, and result in outcomes that are sub-optimal. Anything else is fake combat.