I don't seem to understand what TB is? That's just crazy.
Well, you say a lot of weird shit that makes it seem like you don't (passivity, being a spectator, turns that run while you're away). I don't know what games you're thinking of, but that crap doesn't sound like DOS (yes, DOS, Divinity Original Sin, the games made Larian, the makers of the game whose forum you are on).
And I don't know why you keep saying things like:
Originally Posted by Vlad the Impaler
If BG3 ends up turn based then combat to me will feel just like a small unit tactical wargame.
It is, without any question or doubt, going to be a turn based game, and because of that it will feel more like - oh boy, big shock, here it comes - actual D&D.