100% agreement.
Playing this game feels like I'm fighting the controls the entire time. BG3 has really cool 3D environments, and the addition of jumping opens up all kinds of awesome exploration options ... but it suuucks trying to micromanage a party over even a small gap. Or to split them up to get everyone in position before a fight. Even just getting the weirdly restrictive camera to point at where you want to go/look is a pain.
Guys, CRPGs figured all these things out years ago; just use RTS controls and a WoW-style camera we can aim anywhere. Please; I want to like this game, but it's just aggravating to play.