I love DDO though it has been shifting further away from DND. Still a great game in its own right.
BG3 is the first worthy replacement I've seen!
When you say that DDO is shifting away from D&D, do you mean that the 3e ruleset is less relevant, or that DDO themselves have changed the game away from the 3e rules?
Yes, I'm enjoying BG3 as well. D&D is not my first choice for an RPG but I've been playing it for over 40 years and it feels comfortable. I also like Pathfinder:Kingmaker
, having been burned in the debacle that was Pathfinder Online
and resigning myself to never seeing a proper PF CRPG.