Sounds like a bug.
In one way or the other we all want her.. in the party. Well, most of us. Of course they could simply change the story and make her a crash survivor like us with her teacher being crushed in the nautiloid crash.
But with her current backstory she would need quite a bit of motivation to join.
In Party. In Bed. Just "in"!
The way our encounter went originally, I think she'd have the motivation to join p with my character since I was the one to help her with her frustrations and believe in her abilities. People IRL have fallen in love with each other for less reason than "that person stood by me when I was hurting". Based on the way the rest of the party is constructed, I understand your point, but in NWN, you had to work on people to get NPCs to want to join your party. I think if Alfria had enough "approval" of you, then she would/could want to join your party naturally.
