Evit_it_self. I think the reason to our objections is that we are quite tired of seeing sexiness mixed into every single fantasy game made. You said it yourself, in those games where it's not implemented enough to some players degree, modders will do it.
I can only speak for myself and my opinions but I feel we're soon in to 2021. Isn't it time to let go of the "Sex sells" approach? I can't understand why it's so important still for some players that sex and oversexualization is present in every rpg they play. I mean, the majority of BG1 and BG2 fans should be around 30+ now
That's why somethings, like nudity or armor showing skin, is left to modders and not taking resources away from the development. In my opinion
It's not in every game though. The Outer Worlds had zero romance content. There was none in Pillars of Eternity either.