Without reading all posts...'cause i can imagine a great deal of that discussion...i will always ask myself why gettting a game with TB combat and then wanting RT combat. Just because the older BG's titles were RT?
Personally i was more than happy seeing BG3 is getting TB.
There will always be people liking RT ove TB and that's to be excepted but it is the choice of the publisher/developer.
We are still in EA so it is also to be excepted that there are issues with the combat system as with the rest of the game. There are TONS of issues (even if it runs already better than most bethesda releases ;)).