Turn the testosterone-fuelled language down a few notches please. Heated debate is one thing, but aggressive arguing and confrontational language is quite another.
We all have different views on what we want to see in a game (and yes, it is a game). We all play the game slightly differently. Acknowledge that the other person feels just as strongly about their viewpoint as you do about yours. If you can't respond without being confrontational, don't respond. It doesn't make you any less a gamer.