I don't want developing connections with the characters and learning more of backstory walled behind sex.
I was about to say that in response to what KillerRabbit said. There were good points about getting to know the characters better and discovering their backstories... but why does it need to be hidden behind romance? I'm strongly against locking non-romance content behind romance. Same goes for dream waifu.
I agree that it is important to also develop friendships andvother relationships and that not everything should be romantic. Also, romance works better if there are previous interactions.