If you are afraid of change because the end result might turn out worse than you had hoped for, then I would advise you to copy the current EA version of the game to an offline environment and keep it there and never update the game ever again.
Or ... you can use mod, its quite the same situation, just turned around.
Mods is the stupidest solution / answer when we're talking about important things that could totally change the experience. Mods can't properly implement everything and mods are usually only available for PC.
But don't be embarrased... Even Sven use this shitty argument... (For the party of 6)
BG3 doesn't deserve to become like Mount and Blade 2. The modding community shouldn't work to finish games.
Cute ... first please bother to read it whole, then we can talk.