I certainly hope that BG3 will not turn out to be fan service for waifu-worshipping incels.
Only incels are allowed to enjoy romances in video games? The more you know.
The way romances are currently handled in EA is not great, which adds to the fear.
I would like a clarification on what you dislike and what you think could be done better.
My guess is that her character specifically appeals to those who appreciate sex as reward fantasies.
Some of us expressed very clearly why Minthara appeals to us, you can just read.
My personal theory for the popularity of the Witcher type "grey morality" / "no alignment" is the U.S.' endless wars.
It's just more lifelike, nothing is black and white. When a game features alignment, me and the game disagree too often on what is good and what is evil, or if ''good'' is even diserable outcome in the first place.
The narrative tension in ST: TNG was "you have a set of principles, can you keep to them in the face of credible challenge"?
Every character has their own principles that vary wildly, a game can't actually create a narative like that around a custom PC.