I don't like spiders either, but surprisingly enough, I like the spider matriarch and her babies, maybe because they are blue and red, more colorful. And the babies are just cute.
The matriarch does have good coloring. I have lots of complaints about BG3 but art design is not it.
So yeah, the matriarch is pretty awesome and then I zoom in and then I realize it’s grotesque and I must squish it knowing I’ve been bamboozled by it’s mesmerizing colors.