To be honest, Pause-and-Command is a big part of why I never finished a lot of the BG1&2 and IWD stuff to begin with. It was less of an issue somehow in NWN1&2 but I once again found myself hating it in Pillars of Eternity. I wouldn't mind it being an option. But it would likely kill a lot of my enjoyment of the game.
Understandable. Just like turn-based combat kills a lot of my enjoyment of this game.