Well, I'm just saying. If they keep romance as is, I won't play the game having any character romance because it isn't romance. This is a huge disappointment for me. Period.
One of the things that I really enjoyed in BG1 and 2 was romance. Jaheira's, for example, was challenging, and you had to work for it, and it was rewarding. I felt like it was a real romance that took time, and we went through a lot together, etc. During Siege at Dragonspear, I romanced the captain, what's her name. By the end, it was truly heartbreaking foe me.
The romances in BG3... nothing emotional tp me at all. There's no connection, and they're disappointing.
So, again, if they keep them as is, I just won't, and that is a big loss on the BG3 fun scale to me.
What we have now in act 1 is not a romance and never intended to be. It's a drunken one-night-sex. At some point Larian explicitly said that they are using the word "romance" here to be more "polite", but actually it's just sex.
So, please, just stop mistaking one for another.