We can drop all the arguments as for why we believe one thing is better than the other.
Well, no, we can't, actually, because we are arguing for the addition of that preferential option that is currently missing in the game and being vocal and insistent about it is the only thing that will give us a remote chance to make it happen.
"it's up to personal preference, so shut up and suck it up" doesn't really help anyone here. Well, besides Alyssia and her rabid opposition to let other people have something they may enjoy.
Party control in Baldur's Gate 3 is a complete mess that begs to be addressed. SAY NO TO THE TOILET CHAIN