I'm going to test this out; I've liked Nettie right from our first meeting, since I'm also a bird and wildlife rehabber, and have thus always spoken politely and respectfully to her! Plus, she IS the resident temporarily High Druid, and comes across as more stable and sensible than.the more excitable Halsin! I've been just the opposite with Astarion; I love the arts (especially music) but despise the narcissistic, affected, immature people they attract in droves.