Try, in exemple, Wartales or Expedition : Rome and tell me if you absolutely hate them.
There's little to no chances it happen. I'm sure at best you'd say : "it's useless"...
I'd be curious to know what games have make you become so hostile to them.
If that is about random encounters perosnaly I dislike them in Expedition: Rome, if that encounter was about fighting then I would just load the last saved game so I dont have to fight.
And for example in both Pathfinders random fights during camping/travelling only makes me frustrated. There are too much of them, they are pointless, boring and are just fighting for fighting and game time stratching. And I dislike feelings when game is artifisially stratched to being longer