Idk if anyone else has said something like this but honestly the best way to do it imo is keep the layout as it is and tweak like this:
Reaction toggled on = automatic yes no matter what. Toggled off = ask the player whenever the opportunity rises to use it - left click for yes right click for no. Removed from hotbar (or a third toggle maybe, with a red X across the icon) = automatic no, no matter what.
I don't want to be bombarded with yes/no's every turn for reactions I barely use. Being able to fully customise the rate of automatic uses (and not-uses) per reaction would be way more streamlined, and then you can have the yes/no for the most situational of them all.
The present preset suggestion is something more like this:
Toggle Reactions Prompts - On/ Off
Attack of Opportunity - All Enemies/ Selected Enemies/ Off
Shield Spell - All Hits/ Magic Missile Only/ Other Only (And it only triggers if the attacker hits by AC +5 or less so that you only use Shield if it will make the enemy miss.}/ Off
Counterspell - All Spells/ Default Spell List Only/ Selected Spell List Only/ Selected Enemies/ Off