You cannot equalize being marginalized, and being made aware of other people being marginalized, as being somehow equally uncomforable and harmful. It is the entitlement of thinking that how other people live their lifes not only affects your life, but because you are affected by it you somehow get a say in what is allowed.

Originally Posted by Sozz
Isn't this a question of verisimilitude? It's one thing to consider your character non-binary, but it's a flip being switched for the whole world, not only that, your character might be the only non-binary person in the whole game, yet for everyone it will go by without comment. At times is might strain credulity.

If you dont play a non-binary character, then you wont be experiencing any 'credulity straining' things - you wont even come into contact with they/them pronouns in the game. But for a person who are themselves non-binary and want to play a non-binary character, it might just be nice for once to immerse themselves in a world in which they are not constantly confronted with bigotry, but simply respected for who they are. How anyone can argue against this basic thing is beyond me.