not sure how i should read your post, but it pretty much says, if other can play in ways i disaprove off, it should be removed, is that it ?
PS modesty filter, problem solved ?
No, it is not solved by a modesty filter. If the game has one single npc I can stomach having in my party, then it is a bad game for me. If the combat is cheesy and full of shoves and exploding barrels, that is a bad game for me. If I want to play a character with a particular moral position on life, and there is no content for that, then it is a bad game for me. If every romantic interaction in the game is cringeworthy and awful, it is a bad game for me. This IS a zero-sum game - every inclusion of shite reduces the fun we get from playing it. If I took a dump on your kitchen floor, I don't think you would be very happy with me telling you just to ignore it ("if you don't like it, don't look at it, or smell it").
