Here is an email i got from the Devs about the Issue
We’re so sorry to hear you’re having problems in multiplayer. That’s especially frustrating when you’re playing with friends, because you’ve both taken the time to synchronize and hang out. We appreciate you taking even more time to write to us.
What you’ve described is a known issue. We are aware multiplayer has a few issues at the moment and Team Larian are working hard on fixing them. The good news is that many of them will be solved in Hotfix 2 which we have already released, with the rest following. Here's some information on Hotfix 2:
http://forums.larian.com/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=681702&an=82&gonewIf this still hasn't helped here's a few tips to help avoid issues in multiplayer:
- Avoid switching the character roster while other characters are in cut-scenes, and save frequently so you have a fallback.
- Try to avoid listening into a conversation that's just ended in multiplayer
- If using OBS with a friend to record, use DX11 mode
- Try to avoid clicking rapidly through dialogues
- Avoid manually saving directly after combat
- Avoid entering into dialogues at the same time when very far apart from each other
- Avoid connecting/joining the game while a character is in dialogue
- Avoid players disconnecting during combat (it's never on purpose, we know!)
- Use quicksaving rather than manual saving in multiplayer (F5)
The good news is we are aware. We’re listening, and even if your issue isn't fixed in this Hotfix, know we are still working on it.
Thank you,